"Today's post comes from L.C. over at A Life Of Authenticity. Thank you so much L.C. for helping single mamas to find the joy in motherhood!" - Brittany
Divorce was my choice…single motherhood was a consequence! Raising my children without a father in the home is nothing for others to pity me for or feel sad about.
"Today's post comes from a fellow sister-in-Christ. Thank you Althea for sharing your story and encouragement with us! " - Brittany
Waiting sucks. Sometimes it seems like all we do in life is wait; wait at the doctor’s office, wait for our next paycheck, wait for graduation, we are always waiting for the next big thing.
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We just recently celebrated my son's 3rd birthday! Wow, it's crazy to think about how fast this time has gone by. Looking back on that day, I'm filled with joy and gratefulness. But not just because my first son was born. That was the day both of our lives were saved. It's a day I'll hold near and dear to my heart for more reasons than one. A day that cements a bond between my son and I that can't be put into words...
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Wow, first let me start off by saying that the last couple weeks have been C-Uh-RAYZYYY! It seems like I have had so much going on that I haven't even had time to stop and think. We have been busy, but the reality is that I have felt like...well, crap for lack of a better word.
James 4:8 says "Draw near to God and He will draw near to you." Typically, when we think of drawing near to God, we think of reading our Bibles, praying, doing devotionals, and the like.
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Ok, is it just me or did this year fly by?! I can't believe the end of the year is here already. My husband and I are finishing out the year strong with the debut of our first musical production! This inevitably leaves us with very little time for shopping and all the chaos that comes along with it. So, I thought I would put a little list together for those of us who are already in a time crunch or are just trying to avoid the mall (yikes)! Here is my list for the top 10 gifts for her this season....
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Homeschooling is something I began thinking about long before my first born was set to begin school. I grew up in a single parent household and my mom wasn't able to be as involved in our academics as she would've liked. Once I had children of my own, I knew I wanted to be a predominant influence in their academics.
I had thought long and hard about it, weighed the pro's and con's, read books, talked to other people who homeschooled, and ultimately decided it was the best decision for my family. My husband was 100% on board. Whew! That was a hurdle I was glad I didn't have to face. So, we made the decision together and had no reserves about our choice.
Unfortunately, not everyone was as enthusiastic as we were. There are a lot of misconceptions that people have about homeschooling. I will cover 3 major myths and why they didn't hold any water in our decision to homeschool our children.
It has been 10+ years since my husband and I have been in school. We both remember all too well what school was like back when we were children. We also remember being exposed to things WAY sooner than we should have been.
Unfortunately, things have only gotten worse in the 10-15 years since we have been in school. Our children are being exposed to thing much earlier now...and not just by their peers! This is something we work diligently to protect our children from. Many people will argue that we are sheltering our children from the real world...
The truth: We are sheltering our children from a society that is morally deteriorating from the inside out.
Do not be deceived: Bad company ruins good morals.
If a 6-year-old is having to choose between succumbing to the peer pressure of drugs or being socially ostracized...that's a problem. It's bad enough that our teens are having to combat these things but now we have to protect our adolescent children from them as well.
The educational system has become an advocate for sin and the immoral indoctrination of our children under the guise of being "politically correct". In other words, our children are being forced to accept things that are abominable in God's sight to avoid "offending" people.
Don't let anyone capture you with empty philosophies and high-sounding nonsense that come from human thinking and from the spiritual powers of this world, rather than from Christ.
Relinquishing our children to the morals of today's educational system (or really society in general) is the equivalent of throwing them to a pack a wolves, hog-tied and covered in blood, and expecting them to survive.
Consider this, kindergarteners are having to contemplate and digest the concept of sexual orientation. Why? If it was a matter of addressing a child's identity crisis why not allow the parents to handle it? Conditioning.
It is no coincidence that they can take God out of schools to avoid "offending" people and yet, openly opposing transgenderism or homosexuality could quickly land you on America's top terrorist list.
Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter! Isaiah 5:20
As believers, there is no wisdom in delegating the education and training of our children to a perverse society. And now they are deliberately bringing satan into schools. Educatin with satan?...I rest my case.
Consider this, "proper education" or "adequate education" are relative terms. Determining what is proper or adequate in this case has been delegated to man BY man. The only thing that is absolute are the parameters sanctioned by God.
Unfortunately, people have been deceived into thinking that you have to have a degree to teach your own child. Don't get me wrong, I have the utmost respect for teachers. I mean the time and commitment it takes...that's no easy feat. But for some reason lacking credentials has become a sort of social stigma, as though the absence of credentials equates a lack of intelligence.
The Truth: God's word equips me with everything I need to be a successful educator.
Do not deceive yourselves. If any of you think you are wise by the standards of this age, you should become "fools" so that you may become wise. For the wisdom of this world is foolishness in God's sight.
We have no interest in conforming our children or ourselves to man's standards of intelligence. We as parents have been commissioned for this very thing! God promises to equip us for what we have been called to do and we are here to instruct, train, and guide our children according to God's directive.
And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. Deuteronomy 6:6-7
The fact of the matter is that the responsibility of educating our children falls on us...the parents. No where in the scriptures does it say to send your children away so they can be trained up in the way they should go. No...it says YOU shall teach them. And DILIGENTLY at that! As long as I am obeying God's directive for me, I know He has already provided me with everything I need to succeed. Whether or not man sees me as "qualified" is irrelevant. God has qualified me and He doesn't need mans approval!
This is also commonly referred to as socialization. Many people feel that children that are homeschooled will lack basic social skills like being able to talk to people, developing relationships, developing self-identity, or understanding healthy competition.
The question you have to ask yourself is "do I really want a morally deteriorating society directing my child's self-identity?" Will you allow them to set the standards for what is "acceptable"?
My Husband and I are very selective about the people and places that we expose our children to. Why? Because putting them before the wrong people or forcing them into the wrong environment will inevitably subject them to things they are not yet prepared to handle. Granted, they will have to face the world at some point but not before we develop and prepare them.
The military is not going to throw an untrained soldier into the heat of battle. Soldiers are trained and prepped before being thrown into a war zone. This is no different.
Now is the time, before their little hearts and minds are tainted, to prepare and strengthen our children in the knowledge and might of the Father. We must prepare them for the battles they face in today's society.
Be sober, watch, because your enemy the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. 1 Peter 5:8
Society tells us as parents that we should be objective in dealing with our own children and allow the system to constitute what is "healthy social development".
The Truth: Guidelines for our children's social development will not be delegated to a society that lacks moral standards.
There is no denying that our society's moral standards are at a steady decline. Kids are bringing drugs to school, classrooms are being shot up, and these days you can't even be 100% sure that the teachers can be trusted. And in an arena that has deliberately forced God out, that is prime real estate for the enemy to do what he does best...to steal, to kill, and to destroy.
So, no, we will not allow a morally deteriorating society to direct our children's self-identity. Their identity will be revealed to them by their Creator in the love and safety of our home. And as for what is acceptable, He has already set the standards they are to live by. They will know how to interact with people and they will do it according to HIS standards...with the love of God in their hearts.
The Bottom Line
We live in a society that for all intents and purposes openly objects God and all that HE has deemed good...where social acceptance is valued over spiritual obedience. We do what is necessary to protect our children from the evil that saturates our society, even if that means governing the people and places they are exposed to. We trust God and receive His grace and strength daily to carry out that which He has commissioned us to do. And most importantly, we teach our children the Love of God, and THAT is what this society needs...Amen?!
Thank you for taking the time to stop by and for allowing me to share my passions with you!
Until next time, Blessing to you and yours,
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Hi there! My name is Brittany...helpmeet to T.J. and homeschooling mom to 5 little blessings. Memoirs Of A Good Thing is a ministry that is cultivating encouragement, support, and faith through the testimonies of women! Read more about my journey and the Memoirs of a Good Thing ministry here!